How to ‘Vibe’ with Your Next Toy

 There’s a reason that vibrators are one of the most used and popular sex toys out there on the market today.  They work.  In fact, when it comes to orgasms, there’s few things that are as effective and efficient than a quality vibrator.  Because of this, there are hundreds of brands and varieties out there on the market today, and making a decision can be a little daunting, especially if you don’t really know what you’re looking for.  We’ll try to break it down for you here, so you can have a little more fun and confidence as you’re doing your shopping.

External Vibrators are designed to be used on the outside areas of the body such as the labia, clitoris and penis.  The sizes and shapes can vary, but most of these are not your typical ‘penis shape’, as they are designed to cover more surface area.  The most popular version in this category are the wand style vibrators and ‘body massagers’, which have the added benefit of looking a little less obvious, if discretion is important for you.

Internal Vibrators are obviously designed to be used inside, and are usually cylinder shaped, to mimic a penis, and are great for those seeking penetration along with vibration, and are ideal for targeting the g-spot.  They are made with body safe materials, and are usually waterproof and easy to wash.  Most are made of either ABS plastic or silicone.  Make sure if you’regoing to choose silicone, which is a great choice, that you only use water-based lubricants with it, as the lubes that contain silicone can bond to the material, possibly ruining your new toy!

Combo Vibrators are designed to be the best of both worlds, and are often called rabbit vibrators because of their shape.  They usually consist of a dildo shaped part that is for insertion, with an added arm that is designed to vibrate and stimulate externally.  Great for dual stimulation of the clitoris and g-spot.  

Anal Vibrators are for ass play, and come in a variety of shapes and sizes, but usually have a larger base so they don’t get lost or stuck.  

Penis-focused vibrators are either ring shaped, or designed as a sleeve that fits over the entire penis.  They can be used for masturbation aides, but are a great option to use with a partner as well, so both can enjoy the stimulating effects during play.

Besides these main categories, there are some other specialty vibrators that target the nipples, and vibrators that mimic tongues for realistic oral pleasure.  There are even rideable vibrators available for you cowgirls and boys that want to saddle up!

The power and intensity of vibrators can vary quite a bit, as well as how they are powered.  Battery powered toys are the most numerous and are generally the most convenient, although some lack the power of other rechargeable or plug in models, and of course you always have to make sure your batteries are fresh when you need it.   Most vibrators come with many different adjustable settings, so you can choose the right speed and intensity for your mood.  Usually the noise level or the vibrator will increase as the power and speed go up, but the material it is made with makes a big difference.  Silicone is a great choice if you want something a little quieter, and don’t want your neighbors to think your running a chainsaw in the bedroom or shower.

Once you’ve decided what type of vibrator you are looking for, there are still many other considerations you need to think about.  These toys come in huge variety of sizes, materials, colors and shapes, and also a wide variety of price points, starting at more budget friendly simple options, and ranging all the way up to luxury high end models designed for ultimate pleasure and appearance. You may want to experiment with a few different cost friendly models before making a larger investment, but just remember that you usually get what you pay for, and always make sure you are using a safe product on you or your partner’s body.